The Coaching Circle
Welcome to the Coaching Circle a podcast where we will explore the world of coaching, personal, professional and spiritual development, as well as the business side of coaching. Bought to you by NLP Master Trainer, Coach, and Mentor Toni Everard. In each episode Toni will bring you inspiring conversations with Trainers, Coaches, and other Business Service Providers who’ll share their insights and experiences to help you grow your Coaching skills and build your business. Whether you are a seasoned coach or just starting out on your journey this podcast is for you.
The Coaching Circle
Ep 97: Toni Everard - When Healing Feels Productive But Keeps You Stuck
If you’ve ever found yourself constantly “doing the work” journaling, reflecting, regulating, healing but still not moving forward in your business… this episode is for you.
Because healing can feel productive, even empowering…
But sometimes, it quietly becomes the thing that keeps you stuck.
In this episode, I share how emotional processing can become a hidden form of avoidance and how to know if you're caught in a healing loop instead of creating actual momentum. We’ll explore what it really means to put the pain down, why it keeps resurfacing when it hasn’t been fully witnessed, and what shifts when you start taking action from desire, joy, and clarity instead of trying to feel “ready enough.”
If you’re ready to stop managing pain and start building the life and business you actually want, this one’s for you.
Topics Discussed:
🌀 How healing can become a safety loop that looks like progress
🌀 Signs you’re still carrying pain: procrasticleaning, scrolling, overthinking
🌀 Why the pain resurfaces when it hasn’t been fully seen or validated
🌀 What it means to put the pain down and how to know you haven’t
🌀 The moment your energy returns: shifting from soothing to creating
🌀 Why building from desire creates momentum, clarity and motivation
🌀 What changes when you stop self-soothing and start choosing
💬 DM me on Instagram and tell me what landed, I’d love to hear your thoughts or support you in moving forward.
✨ Want support in moving out of the healing loop and into aligned momentum? Send me a message and I’ll let you know which of my programs is the best fit for you right now.
🎧 Know someone who’s doing all the healing work but still stuck? Share this episode with a coach or business owner who’s ready to shift into clarity, action, and fulfillment.
Links and Resources:
🔹 The Magnetic Business Matrix
Connect with Toni Everard:
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